Eat Me


Eat Me

When I hit thirty. He brought me a cake,

Three layers of icing, home –made,

A candle for each stone in weight.

 

The icing was white but the letters were pink.

They said, eat me. And I ate, did

What I was told. Didn’t even taste it.

 

Then he asked me to get up and walk

Round the bed so he could watch my broad

Belly wobble, hips judder like a juggernaut.

 

The bigger the better, he’d say, I like

Big girls, soft girls, girls I can burrow inside

With multiple chins, masses of cellulite.

 

I was his Jacuzzi. But he was my cook

My only pleasure the rush of fast food.

His pleasure, to watch me sell like forbidden fruit.

 

His breadfruit. His desert island after shipwreck.

Or a beached whale on a king-size bed

Craving a wave.  I was a tidal wave of flesh

 

Too fat to leave, too fat to buy a pint of full-fat milk,

Too fat to use fat as an emotional shield,

Too fat to be called chubby, cuddly, big-built.

 

The day I hit thirty-nine, I allowed him to stroke

My globe of a cheek.  His flesh, my flesh flowed.

He said, open wide, poured olive oil down my throat.

 

Soon you’ll be forty…. He whispered, and how

Could I not roll over on top.  I rolled and he drowned

In my flesh. I drowned his dying sentence out.

 

I left him there for six hours that felt like a week.

His mouth slightly open, his eyes bulging with greed.

There was nothing else left in the house to eat.

 

 

 

Patience Agbabi's

 

Summary

 

The poem is about a woman who has been trapped in a false relationship with her boyfriend.   It is about extremely a fake relationship based on food and commanding.  The poem shows the boy’s overpower to his girlfriend.  For his satisfaction he forces her to become big in appearance.  He is pleased to see her becoming fat.  He doesn’t care about her health.  All he wants his pleasures to be satisfied.  The poem ends with the girl who eats everything and suffocating him to start her new life.

 

Detail analysis

 

Stanza 1

 

“When I hit thirty. He brought me a cake,

Three layers of icing, home –made,

A candle for each stone in weight.”

 

The poet starts with a birthday celebration where the unnamed girl celebrates her 30th birthday.  Her boyfriend brought a homemade cake but the candles placed there to point out the weight of the girl not the age.

 

Stanza 2

 

“The icing was white but the letters were pink.

They said, eat me. And I ate, did

What I was told. Didn’t even taste it.”

 

The poet says it is a white frosting cake and the letters in pink say eat me.  So the girl without delay eats the whole without enjoying the taste of it.  She just eats the whole cake.

 

Stanza 3

 

“Then he asked me to get up and walk

Round the bed so he could watch my broad

Belly wobble, hips judder like a juggernaut.”

 

The weird behaviour of the boyfriend is revealed here.   He wants to enjoy the shaped of his girlfriend.  He asks her to get and walk so that he can have a full view of her figure.  Her broad belly wobbling up and down, her hips shakes like a big truck

 

 

 

 

Stanza 4

 

The bigger the better, he’d say, I like

Big girls, soft girls, girls I can burrow inside

With multiple chins, masses of cellulite.

 

The poet through the conversation between them brings out the vulgar quality of the boyfriend.  He says he likes big fat girls for they are soft with heavy cheeks and multiple chins.

 

Stanza 5

 

“I was his Jacuzzi. But he was my cook

My only pleasure the rush of fast food.

His pleasure, to watch me sell like forbidden fruit.”

 

In this stanza the girl expresses her agony for her boyfriend who is a selfish, merciless person.  For him she is warm and his comforting bathtub.  He feeds her.  Her only job is to gobble whatever he gives to her to eat.  He enjoys to see the girl getting fatter every days.  It’s just like waiting to see the fruit. 

 

Stanza 6

 

His breadfruit. His desert island after shipwreck.

Or a beached whale on a king-size bed

Craving a wave.  I was a tidal wave of flesh”

 

She is like a breadfruit, or a desert island to land on after a shipwreck to him.  It is like a whale who lost his way to shore and waiting for waves to come back to take it back.  She is like a tidal wave but made of flesh.  It is just a cruel view on the girl.  Male dominance is well brought out here.

 

 

Stanza 7

 

“Too fat to leave, too fat to buy a pint of full-fat milk,

Too fat to use fat as an emotional shield,

Too fat to be called chubby, cuddly, big-built.”

 

The pathetic condition of the girl is brought out here.  She is too fate to escape, she is too fat to go out to buy a pint of full fat milk.  She can’t use her shape to protect herself.  Now she has become quite ugly to be called as chubby, cuddly.  For she is too fat and gives a ugly appearance.  She is forced to become ugly by her boyfriend for his own pleasures.

 

Stanza 8

 

“The day I hit thirty-nine, I allowed him to stroke

My globe of a cheek.  His flesh, my flesh flowed.

He said, open wide, poured olive oil down my throat.”

 

The poet says when the girl becomes thirty she allows her partner to touch her huge round cheek.  Their flesh merged together.  He told her to open her mouth and poured the olive oil to drink.  He wants her to be fatter.

 

Stanza 9

 

Soon you’ll be forty…. He whispered, and how

Could I not roll over on top.  I rolled and he drowned

In my flesh. I drowned his dying sentence out.

 

Once again the boy makes a worst, intolerable comment.  He says that the girl would be forty soon.  The girl could not control herself and burst her agony on him by rolling over him and he suffocates due to her weight.  She and her fat flesh could feel the dying words of him.  She could not take any more. Her pain comes out.

 

Stanza 10

 

“I left him there for six hours that felt like a week.

His mouth slightly open, his eyes bulging with greed.

There was nothing else left in the house to eat.”

 

She left him there dead for six hours.  His mouth was open, his eyes are bulging with desires.  There was nothing left to eat in the house.  All over and she expects a new future.

 The relationship between the feeder and the eater is fake and they suffocate with their wrong relationship till the end.  all comes to an end when she takes control over her fate.

 

Poetical devices

 Themes

Beauty one of the most wanted by the society.  It has been seen in a different perspective in this poem.  Beauty has been sabotaged due to ones greed.

 Male power has well brought out in this poem.  It is this male power which controls the fate of the girl and take her to a wrong destination.  Ironically it is the male power which controls the female power in all the ways and in all the fields. 

 Sexual desires lead the male partner to look at her girl as a machine designed for his pleasures.  He designs to his own preference without giving a thought to the feeling of his partner.

 Tone

 The poem evokes sympathy among the readers.  The commands of the boyfriend and accepting blindly and eating whatever he gives and making only him happy cannot be digested.  She becomes totally numb to the junks that she eats.  She could not enjoy what she eats. Her taste buds are dead as her emotions and feelings.

 Color

 The poet uses different color to convey a message.  The icing cake was white with pink letters.  The colors white symbolizes purity and pink for freedom.  But the freedom has been sabotaged by the male to the female.  The colors symbolize the whole male and female society.

 Structure

 The poem is consists of ten stanzas with three lines each. Each line shows the pitiable condition of the girl who has been trapped in her boyfriend’s greed.  The poem goes well with the half rhymes with ending words with full stressed. For example “cake” and “weight”, “walk” and “juggernaut”  when the poet says “poured olive oil down my throat’  brings a visible image as one is choking with the olive oil.  The effect is very emotional.

 Techniques

 Irony is used to bring out the condition of the girl. ‘too fat to buy a pint of full fat milk.’  She could not see herself and referring herself as an ugly person and does not want to live in the society.

 Imagery is used when the boyfriend stroke her to feel her big cheek.  Pouring olive oil into her throat also brings an unusual cruelty of the boy.

 The words such as ‘belly wobble’ give an onomatopoeia effect to the readers and could feel the intolerable condition of the innocent girl.  First it could been seen as the boy treats her like a child.  But later everything become quite clear to the readers to see and feel the cruelty of the boyfriend.

 Thus Eat Me is a poem based on a wrong and fake relationship between an innocent girl and sadist, greedy boyfriend.  Their false relationship is shown when the poet describes the attitude of the boy and the sufferings of the girl.  She suffers both physically and mentally due to his greediness.  He wants her to become too fat so he can enjoy all the pleasures.  The cruel passion for his pleasures destroys the life and freedom of the girl.  But the poem after 9 stanzas of his cruelties ends with the killing of her partner and goes forward to enjoy her freedom and independence as a woman.






 


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